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2019-09-27

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¨ä¤¤¤@­Ó¦³®Ä¤èªk¬O¤À¿ë·Rlove©M¨Ìªþattachment¡C·í¤@¬qÃö«Yµ²§ô¡A©Î³\·R©¹©¹¤w¸g¤£¦s¦b¡A¥i¬O©Ó¨ü¤£¤F¨ººØ­n©M²`«pªº·P±¡¤@¤M¨âÂ_ªº¨Æ¹ê¡]You are probably no longer in love, only the effect of severing an attachment is killing you.¡^¸@ª««ä¤H¦³®É½T¬O¤ß¦p¤M³Î¡A e.g. "Rosa is still emotionally attached to her ex-boyfriend. Everything reminds her of him, a song, a restaurant, a festival... She clings desperately to almost everything." §Ú­ÌÂQ©¹¤Û·Q¡AÁa¨Ï¥¦¥O§Ú­Ì¨ü¶Ë¡C¡]We tend to get attached to our fantasies even when they hurt us. ¡^

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